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A NOTE FROM KELLY DEVOLL, BOB CRAIG'S GRANDSON:
"Hi Byron,
I hope this e-mail
finds you and your family doing well and in God’s service. I wanted to send a
note along because I was just checking The Expository Review site and saw the
announcement of my Granddaddy’s passing. Thank you for posting that. A few
months back I noticed that there was a tribute to Robert McDonald (Bob #2). I
knew that his passing caused Granddaddy to mourn because he loved brother
McDonald very much and had such fond memories of their
time together.
It doesn’t take
long to realize that many of the “old time” preachers are leaving this world.
Some very brave and noble soldiers in the Army of the Lord have fought their
last battles and have left the fight to us. I hope and pray that we are able to
carry on the fight with the skill, with the grace, with the bravery and with the
dignity those men such as Brother McDonald, Brother Leon Odom, and especially
(to me) my Granddaddy, Robert L. “Bob” Craig.
I hope you will
bear with me as I do not know how long this may turn out to be but I wanted to
pass along some thoughts about my Granddaddy.
What a truly
remarkable man!
On May 28, 2004 at
about 9:40 PM I was upstairs at Mom and Dad’s house when my wife called to me
with some distress in her voice and pleaded with me to hurry downstairs. I knew
what I would find when I got there. As I went into his and Mamaw’s room I found
that his breathing was quite slow and what few breaths he was taking were very
labored and shallow. Having spent 4+ years as a paramedic and 15 years in law
enforcement (to the day on that day) I have seen this more times than I can
count. We all held hands as we held back as many tears as we could. And we
waited. Occasionally the HOSPICE nurse would check his heart and at about 9:40
PM she raised her eyes to us and shook her head. And we cried.
One of the bravest
soldiers I have ever known had breathed his last. But worse yet, my Granddaddy
was gone. It is written that our lives are but a vapor that fades quickly when
compared to eternity. But up to this point he had been one of the few constants
in MY part of eternity and now his vapor had gone from sight. This loving and
gentle man, whom I won’t hesitate to say could scare me to death, carried me
crying off of a little league baseball field after taking a fastball to the knee
as a catcher. This was shortly after he tortured me by not saying a word to me
when I threw a baseball through the window of the church building we lived
besides getting ready for the night’s game. He showed no emotion at all! Just
went into the building and picked up the glass! No, “Boooy, wide ya do such a
thing as that?” or “Well of all things!” NOTHING!!! I later found out that he
didn’t want to make me “start ta snivelin’ ” before my game so he held his
tongue. Freaked me out was what he did. But later on after getting smacked on
the field he lovingly carried me off and let my Mamaw care for my injuries.
The next time you
speak with Mamaw ask her about the time I busted my head open staying at their
house. Or about the “Green bean Casserole” incident. True story of legend in the
Craig and DeVoll households.
I could literally
write a novel about that man! And he probably deserves it as much as anyone
could. He has had many others and me in stitches or on the floor laughing so
hard we could barley breath. Then at other times he’s had us crying out loud
after reading a poem about a dog-named “Pooh”. But, for now I’ll leave the rest
of the stories out and tell only this one.
Near the end of his
preaching time in the pulpit Granddaddy was preaching at the Northside church of
Christ here in Georgetown where my wife, my kids, and I now attend. But at the
time I was just visiting them and on Sunday morning Granddaddy asked me to lead
singing during the worship at Northside. I LOVE to lead singing, especially in
front of a good group of singers, large or small. So, I jumped at the chance. I
had to choose quickly because I had about 6 minutes to select my songs for the
worship.
For some strange
reason there was a large number in attendance that day at Northside and the
singing seemed cheery and strong! I opened the song service with “Singing
Redemptions Song”. We kept it upbeat and light, as it should be. Then I had
selected “Take My Hand, Precious Lord” as the song before the prayer. After that
song brother Jim Johnson led the congregation in a most beautiful prayer that
was easy to hear that the prayer was coming straight from his heart. After the
prayer I stood in front of the congregation and led “Hallelujah, What a Savior”
and it touched me to the point of a tear slowly falling down my face as we
concluded. After the Lord’s Supper I announced the invitation song as “Just As I
Am” and before the service we sang “Hallelujah Praise Jehovah”. The congregation
sounded GREAT. Chills moved through my body as I sang each song. My voice had
felt stronger than it had in a while. And I smiled at Granddaddy as he walked
passed me and he nodded. I sat down between my Mother and now new Wife and
received the obligatory pats on the legs that come from a proud mother and a
wife who is just glad your are there between her and her new mother in law that
she hasn’t quite figured out just yet.
As I settled in to
my seat and just as I got comfortable my Granddaddy looked up from his notes and
looked me dead in the eye! I was frozen as he opened his mouth to take a
preparatory breath to begin his speaking. Was I about to be chastised for
changing the order of the service or something? Did he have issue with one of
the songs I led? Had I pitched them too high or too low? What, what, WHAT!?!?
But I waited quietly. And then with his most distinctive and gentle voice this
man who has preached since dirt was white opened his voice and said these words
I will NEVER forget!
He said, “That was
about THE most inspirational song service I have ever heard!” As I sat in the
audience with my mouth standing wide open he kept his gaze fixed on me, nodded
his head, smiled and said “Thank you Pete.” Pete was my nickname he gave me when
I was a child after the trumpeter Pete Kelly. Then he went on about the Lord’s
business and to this day I can’t even begin to tell you what the sermon was
about. My Granddaddy did not pass out compliments very often but if he did they
were deserved and I knew that. He had just paid me a compliment about one of the
things I do for Christ in worship and that made it even more important.
Granddaddy loved to
sing! He had a beautiful tenor voice and wanted to learn new songs. The night
before he died many of us stood around his bed and sang hymns and songs and I
know he heard us. You could just tell. And for a moment he was at ease.
It would be less
than 24 hours and he would leave this world and would no longer be beside the
woman he has loved for more that 65 years. My Mamaw, Ola Craig.
What a beautiful
woman herself! What more could a Christian want than a spouse who is there no
matter what, with nothing but love and devotion for this one man. She has cried
and cried since Granddaddy died. And we have sat with her to give her SOME
measure of comfort but what can I do but sit and pray and reassure. Mamaw is
what every Christian woman should be and I have never seen her or Granddaddy act
in any other way than God’s way. We should all be so fortunate as to spend
almost 70 years with a dear sweet woman like Mamaw.
At his memorial
service I had the honor of leading the large gathering of around 200 folks in
song. What a beautiful tribute to this remarkable man. The singing was
magnificent and one can only imagine the sounds as the angels sing around God’s
throne. Although it was the most difficult song service I have ever lead in my
life I was honored that my Mother and Mamaw had asked me to direct that portion
of the service.
He still speaks to
us in the writings he has left behind. I wanted to let you know my plans for
some of these writings. There are a couple hundred posted on this site and I
have numerous articles, stories, etc. that I have received from him over the
years. With your permission I would like to copy these articles and use them in
a newsletter format that I can send out throughout the community. I want this to
be a tribute to him in the format he so loved and Glory to God in preaching and
teaching righteousness wherever his words may reach. I may add some of mine from
time to time and WILL add Daddy’s from time to time but this is something I feel
very strongly about. I will use snail mail and e-mail to send it wherever it
will go.
Thank you for
allowing me to ramble so. I could write for days about this man. He was very
special.
I look forward to
seeing you soon. Tell your lovely bride hello for me.
Take care and may
God’s Blessings be on you and yours always."
In Brotherly Love
Kelly DeVoll |